On screen, Wen has always been the embodiment of joy, known for her signature wit and vibrant energy. Yet, in those unscripted moments away from the spotlight, she carries a story of courage, transformation, and the quiet art of self-healing.
“Trick myself into just one more!” — The Accidental Career Born from a College Assignment
Many are curious about her beginnings, but it all started with a simple whim: “not wanting to do homework.” As a Chinese Literature student, Wen boldly asked her professor if she could submit a video instead of a written report. This small act of rebellion, fueled by a hidden spark for storytelling, unexpectedly launched her creative journey.
Back then, YouTube was merely her personal cloud drive. She never imagined that the laughter of her friends would become her greatest uplifting force. While the editing process was often solitary and grueling, the instant connection she felt through audience comments made every late night worth it. She laughs, recalling how she told herself every time, “This is the last one!” only to trick herself into “one more try” because of the love she received. Step by step, the girl who skipped her homework walked into the hearts of thousands.
Fake it until you make it! Treating Strangers as the Lens—Internalizing Confidence
Behind her bubbly persona lies an introverted and shy soul. It’s hard to imagine that in private, Wen can be so anxious around strangers that she becomes speechless. Her Instagram handle, “kankanatan” (meaning to talk fluently), is actually a deep aspiration for the person she wished to become.
To overcome this, she developed a unique "hypnosis" method: treating strangers as the camera lens. Since she feels at home in front of a camera, she simply steps into that "confident character." By faking it until she made it, that performed bravery eventually seeped into her bones, becoming her truest inner strength.
Who Says 30 Only Has One Look? Finding "Self-Care" Through Intentional Solitude
For many, thirty is a watershed moment marked by societal pressure. Wen, however, chose to hit the pause button and fly to Japan for language school. Reclaiming the identity of a student at thirty—testing alongside classmates in their 40s and 50s—brought her a profound realization: “Age isn’t a fixed line; it’s a vast plane. No matter your stage in life, every new experience brings a completely different perspective.”
This was Wen’s first taste of living alone. She learned to slow down and savor the quietude—spending hours at the grocery store, perfecting the vegetable ratios in a home-cooked meal, and mindfully folding her laundry. This simple process of showing up for herself taught her the true meaning of cherishing one’s own company. Compared to the uncertainty of her 20s, she now embraces the liberation of her 30s, no longer seeking to meet the expectations of others.
From Hiding Her Body to Embracing Swimwear: How the Right Fit Changed Everything
For Wen, this collaborative shoot was a massive personal breakthrough. Scarred by childhood teasing, she once struggled with deep-seated insecurities regarding her curves, even considering a chest binder to hide herself. She used to dress conservatively, treating her silhouette as a personal "minefield" and feeling defensive when others noticed her body.
That was until she met HAI.
The exceptional flattering fit and premium feel of HAI one-pieces naturally embraced her anxieties. Instead of forcing a shape, the design elegantly complemented her natural lines. This led her to a startling revelation: “My body was never the problem; I just hadn’t found the clothes that truly celebrated it!”
To All the Girls: You Are Enough. Invest in a "Confidence Armor" That Makes You Shine
When Wen looked in the mirror wearing her first HAI swimsuit, seeing her radiant self and the aura she projected, she was finally able to wholeheartedly embrace the light within her. She wants to tell every girl: “No matter your age, invest in a swimsuit that makes you feel powerful!” Putting on a piece that fits you perfectly does more than just turn heads; it serves as a soul-deep reminder: “Look, you are actually incredibly beautiful!”
Learning to appreciate your own body is the ultimate act of self-love. This season, join Wen in discovering that unseen, profound, and elegant version of yourself.
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